Family & Systemic Constellations-Modern Day Rituals for Ancestral & Group Healing
Have you done all sorts of inner work throughout your life, and yet still struggle with lingering or persistent issues that won't budge, no matter what you've tried? These issues may be showing up in the form of a physical or mental health issue, self-limiting belief system, or repeating pattern that you can't seem to get out of. Have you ever considered that the issue might not be just about you?
Oftentimes, when nothing else you have tried yields results, the places where you are stuck are bigger than just "you". It may be about you in relationship to the larger context of your family or another system (such as your workplace or community, or even parts within yourself that can't seem to agree).
Family and Systemic Constellations offer a fascinating exploration into the inherited traumas, unconscious patterns, and entanglements we form with our families (and other systems) that often cause us much unexplained suffering in our lives. In our loving and loyal intention to belong with and help our family members, we often unconsciously take on their pain, suffering, patterns, and limitations, even when it may have originated with ancestors we never knew in life.
Through this group process, attendees volunteer to be "representatives" for members of the client's family -in essence, taking on the role of a certain person and allowing it to play out through them as they report back to the facilitator. The ultimate purpose of the constellation is to heal and transform unhealthy expressions of love into more congruent love, so that we can find a balanced and proper sense of belonging within our families, no longer lovingly suffering on anyone else's behalf.
In this way, as the client for whom the constellation is being done, many of your often generations-old issues can be gently ameliorated and resolved.
It is quite common for the people volunteering as representatives, or watching the constellation to receive shifts and insights into their own family (or other) systems as well. The field of infinite intelligence tends to draw in those with similarities in their [family] stories, so that multiple healings occur within one constellation. If you would like to witness* or participate as a representative* in a constellation, I invite you to join us at any of these profound evenings of deep ancestral/systemic healing.
*A small $5-15 donation to help cover the cost of the space rental would be greatly appreciated, but is not mandatory to attend.
As a trained facilitator, I am now offering constellations evenings for clients on an as-requested basis at Celebrate Life! 4530 18th Street
San Francisco, CA 94114, usually from 7-9pm. Please see my Events page for exact dates of public constellations you can attend as a representative or witness.
There are currently client openings to have your own constellation done in either the public setting or in a private setting if you prefer. Because of my abilities as a medium, I can also do private session constellations with only you and I present if you are not comfortable with using other people as representatives. If you are curious about having a constellation done for yourself and would like to discuss it with me, please fill out the form to your right to schedule a free 15 minute consultation session, so that we can determine whether or not it is the right option for you.
The cost to have your constellation facilitated is $222. This consists of:
– The constellation evening itself, about 2 hours.
– A pre-constellation phone interview to go over your family history, which usually takes 45-60 minutes.
*I require a $50 deposit to reserve a constellation, which is included in the full cost of the constellation. If you need to cancel or reschedule your constellation, please notify me at least one week in advance. Otherwise, the deposit cannot be refunded.
***I look forward to speaking with you soon, and to serving you and the healing of your family soul in whatever capacity is best for you in this moment.***
For those new to constellation work, here in an introductory article: http://nlpsanfrancisco.com/the-5-top-things-you-should-know-about-family-systemic-constellations/
We all inherit patterns from our families. These patterns are unconscious ways of being that usually support us—but sometimes they limit us. Ancestral patterns can impact our relationships, career and finances, even our health.
Constellations are about revealing the patterns that hold us back from the experiences we want in life so that we can let them go. In the process we find the original strength of our ancestry so that it becomes a support rather than a limitation.
Family constellations are in service to creating real change in your life. The kind of change that moves and heals even the really stuck stuff.
All of this happens in a safe and supportive group environment. It’s free to attend as a participant to observe, support, and learn more about this amazing healing work. Anyone who is interested in growth & healing is welcome to attend the event. A small donation ($5) is asked to help cover the cost of the venue. Everyone receives healing and learning just by being part of the evening.
If you are interested in having a constellation done for yourself, please contact me at firstname.lastname@example.org to discern together if a constellation would be a good fit for you at this time.
People come to constellations when they have something they want to change in their lives. When people think they might want a constellation, or want help with change, I do a consultation call with them so we can determine whether or not it would be a good fit to work together and how. Sometimes it’s a constellation, sometimes it’s one-on-one sessions, sometimes it’s a combination of both.
Constellation evenings are held on the Third Thursdays of the month. A themed workshop happens the evening of the next Monday after that. You can view all upcoming events at http://www.nlpsanfrancisco.com/calendar
Please do your best to arrive on time or a little early. It helps so much when we can start on time and not have interruptions for late arrivals.
Please plan to stay the entire time. It’s best that constellations not be interrupted once they’re in progress. Constellations do move a lot of energy, so be prepared—even if you’re just watching, you are participating in a healing for everybody in the room.
Suggested donation $5 for participants to help cover the cost of the space
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